How is demanding that NATO countries actually step up and participate wreaking NATO. I would argue that allowing them to be overly reliant on US playing world cop for them has made them weak and unprepared and uncommitted to what NATO stands for.
Have you met her? If so did you ask? The answer might surprise you. If she is/will be your age and a virgin her suppressed sexual imagination might be more than you can live up to.
weakening NATO is a goal of Putin's
Trump certainly doesn't seem worried about enriching Russia when he won't implement sanctions or argues for them to be in the G7